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Originally Posted by whitesportscar
Don't ask. Just proceed confidently
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We would have also accepted:
Like a rapist.
Ugh.
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Yeaaah, I think the initial verbal "no shit, this is it" communication is huge. And then maintaining that communication throughout the relationship is equally huge. Sex isn't just sex despite what everybody likes to believe about their special psychic link with their current partner. Sex is totally a scary-reliable thermometer for relationship problems. When the sex stops or changes... something is up. In order to know if it has stopped or changed in a manner that indicates a problem... you have to actually go beyond cupping a tit and patting her ass while she's doing the dishes, still worrying about her mother with cancer.
I learned this lesson in a previous relationship and it helped me figure out some of the reasons why the relationships before that went all Hindenburg.
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Despite how equal we all wanna be... women aren't like men.