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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
That completely depends on who is doing the grinding to whom. There's this little thing called communication that can usually sort these things out up front. 
Trouble with hrandani's perspective is he seems to view it as some sort of entitlement and he ought to be spanked.  |
Hey if some girl isn't down for getting freaky when I'm feeling her what's the point of dating her in the first place? Seriously, this isn't rocket science. If a girl I'm in a long term relationship with was actually offended that I was making moves on her - whoah. What?
Haven't you ever heard that most of communication is nonverbal?
Relationships are about give and take, this is one of the take moments for dudes. This is one of the huge disconnects between the genders for a lot of people, not all, and I'm just sayin' that I'm firmly on the side that says yes, sex is an entitlement (excluding the obvious footnotes).
Besides , they love it. And if they don't it's generally time to move on.
He asked for a guy's perspective anyway.
And btw for the original post, when you said you are used to things coming to you - life don't work like that. You gotta hustle and take the licks when it blows up in your face. It's clear you're not getting enough sex so you gotta change your shit up son. Find out what turns her on, if she wants to go do some latin dancing, go do that and then try the titty grab (tm) once you get home. If every tubby puerto rican in the world can salsa, by god so can you. If gael garcia bernal makes her wet, pop that bitch in the dvd player and go to work between her thighs.