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Originally Posted by spindles
I'm going to be a dissenting voice (and coming in at the end it'll probably not make much difference), but it pisses me off that people nowadays see marriage as disposable. Marriage is supposed to be two people working as a team, but so often marriages are short and perhaps entered into too early.
I'm sorry to hear that things haven't worked out, but I'd be more likely to try a bit harder. Have you considered going to see a marriage counsellor? Just having a third party to help with issues can be really helpful.
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If he is no long attracted to her, marriage counseling isn't going to work. He is being honest with himself and her about where things are at. Once you have come to the point where you are no longer attracted to the other person it is almost impossible to get it back.
I have been though this, I tried very hard and felt really guilty about it. In the end I knew it would be unfair of me to stay, and pretend I still had feelings for him. I cared enough to let him go so he could find someone who would be attracted to him, and we could both get what we need and deserve.