If you're seriously considering marriage, you need to have a long sitdown and figure out the finances. Maybe you should be going to him with your feelings and taking this as your opportunity to find out if he is going to put his money where his mouth is.
You should be able to communicate and share information, and money is a crucial issue. If it's a taboo subject now, it's not going to get easier once you guys tie the knot.
Talk!
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Mark Twain
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