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Its been intresting to me dealing with my most recent ex, who cheated on me...she claims that there was "no reason." I don't buy it. I realize i wasn't filling some of her needs, valid or not. But i got suckered in to being her "friend" in ways that kept our relationship in ways alive long past its official expiration date....fixing that, and being "just" friends has been our greatest challenge since. Point being of this rant...people stay with people to fill emotional needs. People cheat when they aren't met, not that the cheated on person should have been meeting or trying to meet all those needs...it may have just been a bad match.
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