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Ok all, i went to lunch and we talked and I am sad to say (really I am) that I ended it. The problem lies with the fact i can't see that I want to be with her, even if she changes. I am not sexually interested in her any more, and it would be so unfair for me to string her along just because I like her as a friend.
it's a mind shattering day, but in a year or so, i'll know I made the right decision. I hate inflicting pain on someone who i've given 5 years of my life to, but if the next 30 are going to be crap then i need to make the cut now.
thanks for all your comments, i really appreciate it.
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and p.s she isnt depressed, she just likes playing World of Warcraft. the problem with us is that i left home at 18, worked and became independent, she didnt and i have had to school her 100% of the way. i'm tired of it, and she has done nothing to aid our family, just selfishly played games all day when she was meant to be finding work. also, we've had 4 serious talks already about this, with promises of change. ... nothing changed.
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