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I think the previous posters make valid points. Only you can determine if the marriage is over or not. Not knowing all of the details, I feel compelled to ask if there is something else going on in her life that she's not dealing with. As someone said, you have portrayed her as lazy - is this accurate, or are there other issues at hand like depression (which often looks like laziness to the outside world) or anxiety or self-esteem issues. What are her reasons/excuses for not looking for or getting a job? What are you hearing her say? These are good questions to ask yourself if you are interested in making it work. Would counseling be an option? Would she see a career counselor?
If you are not interested in making it work, then you know what you need to do.
I wish you the best of luck.
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