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she sounds pretty fuckin lazy. she may not be but that's how you've portrayed her.
You either tell her exactly why you've detached or you'll just pull out of the marriage. If she isn't willing to meet you halfway to make things work then you'll need to file the paperwork. Water runs under the bridge both ways, and people need to meet halfway and work at things in order to survive a marriage.
and yeah.. you need to do as Jinn suggested, figure out if you want to be with her if she does change, before you ask.
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