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I think Redlemon's (if I can put words in his mouth) is going to say that you need to be sure what she thinks. You need to ask her.
If I were in your shoes, I'd basically give her an ulitmatum. Things are bad, she's behaving selfishly (no job, no prospects, no real support) but you're willing to give it a try. If she doesn't shape up in a reasonable amount of time (but with a firm deadline), you're going to have to move on with your life. Perhaps the threat of you leaving will change things. If it doesn't, you have your answer.
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