It's all about context and body language. Is the the right time/place and are you throwing up the right "Heeeey, how yoooou doin'?" signals?
If I'm in a relationship with a female-type womangirl and we've been engaging in the carnal delight that is the hoocha-hoocha badger dance on a regular basis... subtle signaling is all that is required. Touching of sexual areas is usually how it is starts. You'll be flopped on the couch and the credits to Die Hard will be rolling... you look at her, she looks at you... you run a finger down her sternum and over her stomach... that's usually all that needs to be done. Follow that up with some kisses, tug on her earlobe gently with your teeth and badabing badaboom. You could resort to a verbal request but that's hardly necessary if you're both comfortable with each other. I haven't had to bust out "So, you feel like doin' the seckz, pretty thing?" too often recently.
I don't have any genitalia, but I believe that women are all about how you build up to things. Foreplay isn't a chapter in Sex, it is its own book.
Last edited by Plan9; 08-23-2009 at 08:26 PM..
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