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Originally Posted by abaya
Watch yourself. There are more than a handful of good people around here (TFP) who practice open/polyamorous marriages, and do it more successfully than a lot of monogamous, "traditional" people.
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i so agree been workin it all out for over a year now!!! LOVE is so amazing yes i said love, because for us thats what it is all about
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Originally Posted by ratbastid
Well, that's valid until you consider who entered into that promise (I decline to use the word "contract" in this case, because it's just inaccurate). Look: I stood in front of lurkette and our families and loved ones and promised that I'd forsake all others. I did. Can't deny it. But who I made that promise to was lurkette, and I'm who she made that promise to. If we agree to alter our agreement, we have the freedom to do that. There's no dishonor of the word we originally gave, in that. There would be dishonor in it if we pretended we'd never said that, or we acted to break that word in secret (as so many married people do). But to say: here's what we said, and now we're saying something different... that's COMPLETELY an act of honoring our word.
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life is not planned how can u control where your heart ends up as long as the people involved have an understanding of what is going on who is to say how you feel is wrong...love is not wrong...