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Originally Posted by jewels
As Noodle said, bullshit. Not even close to a fact. Insulting, as a matter of fact. And it's not June Cleaver. It's believing that two people can base a good relationship with a foundation of trust. Otherwise, that relationship is destined for doom.
It seems as though you're on both side of the fence. You think the sanctity of marriage should be upheld at nearly all costs, yet you think females are incapable of self-control, respect and trust?
Yeah. And all men cheat.
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Take a step back from teh screen and breathe!
I
am female lol.
And I obviously haven't stated one sex is better than the other.
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Originally Posted by cadre
First of all, I don't think there's a 'these days' type of issue going on here. There have always been thing that people think of as private in relationships, snooping is no new concept. Your opinion that people don't try anymore is just that, your opinion. I tend to disagree.
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Approximately 50% of all marriages THESE DAYS end in divorce. If you need citing, please feel free to use Google for loads of various references. This is no opinion.
What, do you think it's because people are just meaner now or something? No.
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Originally Posted by cadre
Also, your last comment there about the oreos..yeah, that's definitely not a fact. Many people here have stated that they have no disire to snoop, are we to assume they lied?
In my relationships, I have never felt the need to snoop. I just don't feel like that is a way to accomplish anything. Right now, I pretty much have full access to all of my SO's important accounts and I have no desire to look at any of them.
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You folks are misusing the word 'snoop.'
If partners willingly exchanged passwords, then it's not snooping. The op used the phrase
'if they would never find out.' Those of you who are getting your panties in a bunch over the word 'snoop' need to chill. No one here on the board has accused you of doing this. But I do absolutely believe that at some point and time, if a couple has openly exchanged this information, each individual has indeed logged on to the other's account. You even said you did.
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Originally Posted by cadre
If I need to use his computer for something, or look for something in his email, I always ask as a courtesy and he does the same.
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You were just a 5-year-old with manners. You asked first lol.
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Originally Posted by Suzz04
I know this is going to sound vindictive but, shitty karma can come back on one. And I hope that it seriously does with him...Also, I gave it my 150% to make it work, even after the first two incidents it was the last one of him taking off with my best friend that was the complete break down of my life to the point of seeking medical attention to survive.
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Reading this was very familiar. This happened to me in 1995. The two of them were fucking around behind my back, calling ME crazy for questioning whether or not this was happening. They denied it every time for about 2-3 months. I went ape shit, struggling with 'hey, maybe I really am just paranoid,' until I walked in late one night and caught them on my brand new sectional.
I let him keep my sectional.
You have to keep reminding yourself that all the bad you do in life, you get in return threefold. And the same applies with all the good. I hope this gives you some peace / piece of mind.
