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Originally Posted by Crompsin
Pfft, I'm not sure how this fits in the thread. Directly, anyway. Like age matters?
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Maybe you got confused on what I was saying.
I was trying to show how my parents fell in love at a young age and remained together. Actually, it's the same with all their siblings as well. They all met young and stayed together. These sorts of relationships just don't happen anymore. And it's sad.
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Originally Posted by CinnamonGirl
1) I'd be absolutely furious if someone did that to me
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A lot of people say this. But I don't understand why. I'd honestly be flattered lol. It did happen once before and I thought it was adorable. I had nothing to hide of course. If I did, then I would definitely be furious.
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Originally Posted by CinnamonGirl
Again, I say, if you don't trust each other, what's the point? No, the world's not perfect, and not everyone is trustworthy. But if I'm letting you into my life, and into my heart (yeah, I know, that's cheesy), I'm damn sure gonna trust you. Have I paid for that? You bet. But I'm not gonna get all sneaky and bitter because of it.
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As we all know, you take a chance on getting hurt when entering any sort of relationship. When tension's in the air with a significant other, a simple 'are you cheating on me' question will not always get an honest answer lol. Especially nowadays.
Not that I'm any different than anyone but I have been hurt very badly by men as well as women in my past. I choose to avoid having my heart ripped out again if at all possible - all while knowing that if I do start looking for trouble, there's a damn good chance I will indeed find it. I think it's a control thing. I must have the upper hand even when getting fucked over, if that makes sense.
My motto - expect the worst and hope for the best.