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Ok, this is going to be hard to answer. In all honesty, yes, I have looked when I knew the passwords. and it killed me. I found out things I wish I hadn't and then could not confront my now ex-husband about it because I felt guilty. It destroyed me. That was a long time ago though. A different time, a different place. The way he was acting and what he was doing on the computer left me feeling very insecure and not trusting. Of course, now we are separated. I cannot look back and regret; but look forward and learn. IF I ever have another SO, there will be no snooping. IF I suspect something, I will confront him immediately. Open and honest with my next relationship, if and when that happens.
I would suggest to anyone, if you suspect something is wrong, TALK about it. Don't snoop. Snooping kills relationships. Not that it is totally to blame for mine failing, but I am sure it contributed to an already failing relationship.
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"Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." ~Alex Karras
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