Originally Posted by noodle

I know all of my ex's passwords. And I still don't look. That's a privacy violation.
We had an open-account policy with each other at all times, but if one wanted to look, the common courtesy was to ask. I never did, nor did he unless we were showing each other something.
Even now with the CC involved, I still wouldn't want to violate his privacy. Nor would I tolerate him doing that to me. No matter how much I've been tempted in mind-altered moments, that boundary has remained sacred.