Originally Posted by Strange Famous

Maybe... I wouldnt deny that I have some things Im a bit uptight about. I take the point about for example getting head - if your eyes were closed you might not tell the difference between a man and a woman sucking you off - but its just the way I feel about anal sex.

Another thing which I've always found, and always found a bit strange about myself is that for me I am much more interested in my partner "getting off" than in myself "getting off"... although of course in the normal course of things I aim for both....

I dont want to go into details about like my personal life with my girlfriend - but I sometimes get more emotionally excited about the foreplay (using your hands and mouth etc) to the actual act. But anyway, I dont want to go too off topic.

When I think about anal sex, in my mind I have an image of - you know - shitting, and I just find it an utter turn off. I know factually that any girl probably must have to take a shit sometimes, but I dont accept this emotionally and dont want to think about it at all.