I would say it's the later in my case, I've gone so far down the porn road that the things that gets me going can seem a bit outlandish sometimes. I don't want my SO finding it and think normal sex isn't doing it for me because of them.
My biggest fear around my porn stash is that someone is going to go through it and think that just because there are some outlandish things in it, that's the the things I want to do in real life as well.
I've talked to a lot of people who can't fathom the difference between a sexual fantasy and a desire to make that fantasy reality. The main reason I hide my porn, is because of people like this.
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