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Originally Posted by soma
Ok, here's some more information.
We went on a first date together and while it wasn't horrible, it wasn't filled with flirtation and playfulness. In other words, it was very ... platonic. I actually thought she wouldn't be interested in seeing me again, but she is, but I'm worried she's only attracted to my looks, which won't last long if I continue acting so shy around her.
The reason why I want to do alcoholic slurpees is because it, in my mind, is very discreet. I know there is a chance of getting caught, but I have every reason to not want her to get caught. I'd get in a lot of trouble too. And also, I didn't mean to give the impression that we'd get plastered, just enough to loosen up.
I know the idea of using alcohol on a date is a bit of a cop out, but ... well that's why I'm asking.
Also, I should have wrote: "A lake" instead of "The lake". I wish I lived in Chicago or some other big city.
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Hmmm, well in my experience some of the best first dates I've been on have taken place at a nice pub or on a nice patio. I'd say go for it, as long as a beer or two doesn't totally derail your game (I wouldn't go for anymore than that). And I really wouldn't worry about the whole drinking in public thing, I've taken slushies and vodka around so many places in urban areas and never had a problem I highly doubt you and your gal will be harassed by authorities while sauntering around a lake.
Most important is just be relaxed and play it cool.. remember that girls love a guy who they have fun with, and given your itinerary I think it sounds like it should be a fun day indeed.
Let us know how you fare.