I believe it's all in how you see yourself. People tend to make initial judgments based solely upon appearance. That's okay, because those are people who don't matter. Those who are potential friends or relationships of any type are going to hear you and find out who you are before forming opinions.
I'm overweight but walk with pride. I feel sorry for those who are quick to judge because they'll never get to know the good friend they might have had.
Even when I was slim, I've always thought that big guys who carry themselves with confidence are very sexy. I don't think I'd see you as a thug.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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