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Originally Posted by highthief
Then obviously you would not have helped them achieve their "goals" nor would you have been supportive presuming their goals were to have children and get married.
Having said that, I think it's already been stated that you are presuming a lot. Maybe their goals were to have a family. Nothing wrong with that, the majority of women in the world share that goal on one level or another.
Having said that, for all you know, they're writing novels in their spare time, studying, planning a business, a move abroad, earning black belts in Tae Kwon Do, etc. Their lives aren't over because they got married and had a kid or two. Some people don't find "success" in the manner you seem to be describing until later in life.
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Wow that's real male chauvinist old thinking of you
So you're saying most women just want to get married and have kids? They can't chase their dreams until after they do so? Right... You're presuming a lot as well. My exes don't have kids (thankfully). They're working dead-end jobs supplying money for their druggie loser boyfriends and their own addictions. I doubt they have time to write novels, travel abroad, or earn black belts in tae kwon do.