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Originally Posted by Cimarron29414
We can now determine her commitment to her vows based on an unknown level of gravitational pull, can we?
Can you imagine the misery she must feel knowing that every night the OP sneaks off to his computer room for 7 hours of internet porn when all she wants is for him to come watch TV with her, or take her out on a date, or read her a few pages of the book he is reading, or dance with her in the living room...
We reap what we sow. He's getting exactly out of his marriage what he puts in. She's hopeless because there is no hope, she's just waiting for her execution. She's been waiting for it since before they got married.
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You are better than this.
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Originally Posted by Punk.of.Ages
It seems, to me, that you haven't read his later posts. He has stated that he has put effort into changing and it is not working. It is time to call it quits.
Furthermore, this man, clearly, does not truly love this woman and never has. Love can't be forced. It was over before it started. Move on.
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If you sincerely believe you have tried your best, and that the relationship is not working because she is not working at it as well, why do you still need santion from TFP to leave? I think maybe you are trying, but you also have your own issues that are clouding things.
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