obviously my post about the societal practice of marriage was missed. I find it sad that a status of marriage trumps individual or mutual happiness. This whole marriage was based on falsehoods and empty promises as well as a lack of respect and and confidence. If there is no way to mend that, then it's doubtful that either one is happy..and they are in fact ruining *each other's lives*
at that point, there is no healthy reason to stay married.. even less of a point if it's only to achieve some archaic status in society.
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