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Originally Posted by FuglyStick
You don't have to be religious. It's a matter of character.
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You view it as a valuable display of good character to choose to be miserable and spend the rest of your life with someone with whom you have irreconcilable differences? Lifelong devotion over all other circumstances makes little sense in absence of belief in an afterlife to be rewarded for wasting this one.
I view it as a matter of character to 'make do' if there are kids, other than that, don't marry lightly, give it your best shot, and if it doesn't work out, live and learn.