Quote:
Originally Posted by neflyte
My ex left me for this reason, so I can't advocate that you end your marriage for it. As the one that was left behind, it hurt like you wouldn't believe.
I'd say talk to her about it. Be honest, open and direct. From what I've experienced, open communication is the key (if not "a" key) to healthy relationships.
|
I reread the thread just now, and don't know why I didn't quote this before. Why is her emotional health more important than his? Would you really have preferred your SO to say "I'm miserable in this relationship, we've tried everything, I'm still miserable, there's nothing you can do to make me not-miserable, but I'm going to stay with you and be miserable the rest of my life so that you don't suffer some short term emotional distress"