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It sounds like you need to work on yourself. You can't count on other people to complete you. Maybe see a doctor, get some counselling and medication, if necessary, then decide if your marriage is worth staying or leaving.
You might have gotten into it as the easy thing to do, but leaving it because it's the easy thing to do is just as wrong. You must try to work it out, or just face the fact that you are a quitter, and only in it for the quick fix and easy life. "As you sew, so shall you reap" ( not to get biblical, but it seems to fit )
An easy life is boring. Challenge is where we grow and get stronger. Challenge yourself to work this out with your wife, and if you can't then you will leave the marriage at least knowing you tried.
I broke off my marriage with my wife, and I'm sure it was the right thing to do. I tried to make it work for a long time and I still feel like a failure. That is hard to get over.
Sorry if this was a bit disjointed...
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bill hicks - "I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."
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