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This is going to sound naive (and perhaps it is) but what about taking a leadership role in getting your marriage out of the funk. If she's unmotivated or complacent, set an example and bring her along.
Enroll the two of you in some sort of hobby workshop or activity: Cooking class, wine appreciation, pottery, photography... What's going on down at the local Rec Centre? Are there any local games nights? Guided nature walks?
Sign her up and force her along. It doesn't have to be hard core or high impact, just something to get you out of the house and away from screens.
You guys need new stuff to talk about and experience that isn't just the latest tech gadget or gaming trend - something outside your comfort zone.
Taking the initiative to create activities you can do together will affirm your faithfullness in her eyes and hopefully get some momentum going again.
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Building an artificial intelligence that appreciates Mozart is easy. Building an A.I. that appreciates a theme restaurant is the real challenge - Kit Roebuck - Nine Planets Without Intelligent Life
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