Wow, glad to see TFP has finally sunk to giving useful advice like "stop feeling what you are feeling," "you are an asshole" "if you bone anyone else you'll get an STD and your peener will fall off" and "spend the rest of your life miserable, it's the honorable thing to do"
If he doesn't have kids and doesn't love his wife anymore, what exactly is it that he should stay?
Would y'all be giving the same advice if the OP went something like "I think I'm gay now...I got married despite these feelings, but now feel trapped in a marriage to someone I'm not attracted to who may not even be the right gender...what do I do?"
Maybe I'm out of line, but he needs to have one hard blunt convo with his wife, "I'm not happy with our sex life, and it makes me want to sleep with other people, what can we do about this?" and then if she is not willing to put any effort into changing things for the better, he needs to decide how he wants to spend the rest of his life.
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Last edited by telekinetic; 07-30-2009 at 10:44 PM..
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