That's where the "saving the marriage" part comes in. If he can, then he should try and get whatever feelings he's had for her at the beginning back. If not, this seemingly stupid desire to just fuck around will erode not only his feelings to her, but the entire dynamic of their relationship hurting them both in the end.
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Maturity is knowing you were an idiot in the past. Wisdom is knowing that you'll be an idiot in the future. Common sense is knowing that you should try not to be an idiot now. - J. Jacques
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