Originally Posted by savmesom11

Or perhaps he didn't have anyone else who was willing to pull on his pole on a regular basis so he thought better her than no one....and the true romantic part, whatever....I am 33 years old and never married because I knew that I wasn't ready for the forever-ever part....this isn't the 50's-60's anymore in which one feels obligated to marry, we have choices and control over our futures....the fact that he choose to "settle" is some how supposed to be an excusable reason to say I quit now? No it's not but as long as you all keep telling him that it is not only excusable but acceptable his conscious will be clear.....the only acceptable outcome besides my original post of rekindling the flame he promised to keep ignited till death do them part is for him to divorce her and end up being cheated on and infected with STD's by every skinny girl he thought was gonna give him what he was missing.....and his ex finds a real man who is equally devoted to her and lives happily ever after.