Cheating, in any form, is a coward's way of dealing with unhappiness in a relationship. What constitutes cheating in a relationship varies relationship to relationship, but for the most part all involved knows what it is and usually involves "if you feel you have to hide it, it is probably cheating."
That being said, Marriage or no, if you are in a relationship and are not happy, you have really only two choices. Stay in and try to work to make it so that you ARE happy, or leave.
Both have consequences, and we may not like everything that happens from that choice.
There isn't necessarily a perfect solution as your partner has their own life, opinions, and desires to be happy. Your choice will directly affect them, as their reactions will directly affect you.
I wish you the best and I hope for both of you and your partner's sakes that all works out for the both of you in the end.
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