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Originally Posted by Punk.of.Ages
That's all fine and dandy until reality steps in and one realizes just how prone the heart is to making mistaking and changing the way it feels.
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I know this may sound paradoxical, considering who it's coming from, but... That's a commonly held view of things that is IMO nothing more than emo nonsense justifying a five-year-old-style temper tantrum about getting what I want when I want it.
Look, one alternative is to alter his agreement with his wife to include other relationships. She would have to accept that alteration to their agreement for that to work, of course, and given what he's said, she might have a hard time with that. But I'm saying something much more nuanced here than "shut up and settle". I think he really can have anything he wants
as long as it's done inside a context of honoring his word. That's the foundation for my relationships working. Sometimes that's ALL that has my relationships work. Polyamory's not all picnics and blowjobs, you know.