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Your wife deserves to be with someone who truly loves her. If you aren't sure about your happiness in this relationship then talk to her about it. If her making an effort to take better care of herself will appease you and fix the issues, great.
Lack of experience leaves a person without perspective. This goes in all areas of life, not just sex. I know what great coffee tastes like because I've tried a lot of coffee. I know I'm in a great relationship because I know what others have had to offer. I have comparisons. I fell in love before I had much experience and I was in the same boat you are now. Wondering what other girls feel like, wondering how other personalities mesh with mine. You spend all of your time eating yourself up because you don't know if what you have is good and if you're wasting your life when you might be so much happier.
Your wife deserves to know how you feel. She deserves the opportunity to choose if she wants to stay or not. You deserve to know what other experiences are out there. But, if you decide later that you miss what you had be prepared to hear that she's moved on and doesn't want you back. Tough choice, but, man, nothing is ever easy.
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