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Originally Posted by dlish
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[/COLOR]oh, one other thing, if you're doing your head in about all of this, hiring a hooker will only confuse you and muddy the siutation even more. you need a clear head and clear conscience for this.
you'll end up running yourself into the ground.
DONT.DO.IT
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I completely agree with dlish on this subject. I'm on the other end of this spectrum and if my husband was unhappy I would try to mend our relationship or give it a break. Some days I feel the same way with my marriage. We had kids and got married really young. Neither of us had any other serious relationships. And I have talked to him about this kind of thing happening in our relationship. For one I am a big girl and I know that I'm not really sexually attractive to most and I would understand if he has thought about this. He tells me he loves me just the way I am and this relationship works. Now if you don't talk to her about this you will live a life of regrets and if it were me I would feel guilty for making my husband stay with me out of quilt. I would never want him to live his life wondering "what if". I'm not saying I would buy him a hooker if he wanted one, but I would want him to be happy.
Good luck with this choice and think hard before moving forward.