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Originally Posted by RangerJoe
this is adorable. I'm a sucker for the guys who are nervous around girls (they tend to be sweeter). Saying this will also act like an icebreaker.
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It may also show him in a bad light where the girl thinks that he lacks confidence. Not everybody's as sweet as you, Joe.
It may backfire and turn into a really prominent turn off that she may not have noticed the night before.
I find it easier to talk to people in person and during an activity (something as simple as walking in the city). That way you have visual clues all over the place that may serve as reminders of a situation you might want to share that she will find interesting or amusing. I'm not a phone conversationalist. My conversation would look similar to yours and only after we've met for said dinner/coffee would I actually engage her in a conversation.