Perhaps you're aiming too high. I used to be shy on the phone with girls too--that's when texting came in VERY handy. Gives me a lot of time to think about what to say. Once I get comfortable with a girl I can then call her up to make small talk, like asking her out for lunch or dinner. If that goes well then I begin to talk to on the phone, plus texting, plus lunch and dinner.
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Him: Ok, I have to ask, what do you believe?
Me: Shit happens.
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