You might try putting a little lube in the tip of the condom before you put it on. It can help make things a little more enjoyable if sensitivity is a problem. There are tons of different kinds of condoms out there, it's really a matter of finding the one that feels the best for you. *donks you on the forehead with a rolled up magazine* WRAP IT UP. Give Beyond Seven brand condoms a try. They're pretty damn good, as far as condoms go.
For the BC thing, there is more to BC than "she takes it and can't get pregnant." There are a variety of different (potential) medical risks, physiological changes, and when you start messing around with hormones, emotional swings that can and do come into play, not necessarily with all women, but it is there.
As far as her being "experienced..." it's probably something that is best not to bring up. If she wants to share that with you, by all means listen, but the fact of the matter is that you really don't want to know everything she did with her partners in the past any more than she wants to know about...well I guess all the naughty little thoughts you've ever had when you're flogging the dolphin. The fact of the matter is that she's with you now, she loves you, you love her, and she's having sex with YOU.
Oh yeah...Slipping out happens...not everyone's hung like a pornstar. I'm sure your dick size is fine. Mine's about the same size and I've always received more than favorable reactions with it. Relax, have fun. Sex is supposed to be fun.
Good luck to you, it will get better.
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