| Grew up one of seven kids, with both parents, in a 900 square foot house.  We were close by necessity then, but nowadays I rarely call them or chat with them online.  I care if they are doing well, but they get on my nerves almost immediately during conversation ( well my sister anyway ).  I don't understand having to see someone all the time in order to maintain connections.  I can go a year or so and then meet up and it's just like they were next door the whole time.  I enjoy my independence a bit more than others though.  
 Now having said that, I hope my daughter keeps in better touch with me when she leaves than I do with my parents...  hypocrisy, I barely knew ya
 
				__________________bill hicks - "I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."
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