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I will say Mr. Anonymous Member, that most of the things in life that we walk into with an idea of "how it's going to be", will turn out to be the opposite. Sex wasn't an exception. The first time I had sex, she bled and it was painful for her. I was wearing a condom and really couldn't do much physically. I just kind of had to be there with her. Then about four or five times after, it became a whole other animal.
And it kind of continues in that vein. Once you get the swing of it, you're pretty much golden. I will say that every relationship I'm in (not one night stands, fooling around, etc), it takes a couple of times before it gets to be amazing; you need time to feel out what they like and don't like, how they move, etc.
Give it time my man. Chill out. Don't think about how or why or whatever; just be. Have fun; be safe.
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EX: Whats new?
ME: I officially love coffee more then you now.
EX: uh...
ME: So, not much.
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