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Originally Posted by genuinegirly
NOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Stupid, stupid male.
I started playing with myself when I was about 10. It was all about feeling good. I later realized it helped me relax. I had no idea what an orgasm was, so I never bothered to work up to one. It took no time whatsoever the first time a male friend showed me what an orgasm was. Told me it was possible - bam. Easy peasy. Most women are not sexually disfunctional as you have described. Maybe every woman doesn't have it as easy as me, but a vibrator is harly required. In fact, I am bothered that you think it is required. What kinds of women have you been with, really?
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Wow. This is a post from a "Super Moderator"? I would have been banned from the TFP if I had started a response to your post by calling you a "stupid, stupid female."
As to the substance of your response, if you had read my post carefully, you would have seen that I NEVER said that "most women are ... sexually dysfunctional." I said that:
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Originally Posted by BCD
Here is my guess. Apologies in advance for generalizations.
Many women struggle to have orgasms.
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I'm happy for you that you've been playing with yourself since you were 10 and can orgasm easily. I've been with many women like you in this regard. You - and women like you - were not intended to be covered by my statement, which I acknowledged (and apologized for) as being a generalization.
However, just because this is true for you, it doesn't mean that my statement that "many women struggle to have orgasms" is not. If this were not the case, how can you explain the dozens of books on Amazon that teach a woman how to have an orgasm? Ever seen books or magazine columns teaching a guy how to have an orgasm? Also, how can you explain these statistics I found from a quick Google search:
- 5-10 percent of adult women in the U.S. have never experienced orgasm by any means of self or partner stimulation" (Spector & Carey, 1990).
- In a survey of 100 happily married couples, "48% of the women reported they sometimes had difficulty in getting sexually aroused, 46% reported intermittent difficulties in reaching orgasm, and 15% were completely unable to have an orgasm" (Heiman & Lopiccolo, 1976:24).
Hell, when I tried to Google to find out what percentage of men had never had an orgasm, I got the following message: "Did you mean: percentage
women never orgasm"
If you think that my post lacks so much legitimacy that you called me "stupid," why did jewels reply:
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Originally Posted by jewels
I kinda agree with you. I know quite a few women my age that had never had an orgasm or had their first later in life when learned about Rabbits and such from girlfriends or cable shows. Because of this, it quickly became an acceptable tool in the bedroom for use either solo or as a couple.
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To further substantiate that my "guess" on how the fleshlight and a vibrator are perceived differently might have some legitimacy, check out this:
Original Fleshlights at Fleshlight.com!
vs.
First Time Orgasm | Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
You need to stop reading (and responding to) posts as though they are intended as a personal attack.