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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
He eventually started trying, but only after it was too late. My feelings had changed. I love him, but I'm not in love with him anymore. No matter how hard I have tried, I have not been able to feel love for him like I once had.
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Ditto my last marriage of nearly 14 years.
If she's willing to stay to try to see if you can rekindle the feelings together, go for it with all the gusto you've got. Keep going to counseling and see if the two of you can find happiness again.
But if either of you become miserable trying to please one another or make it happen when it is too late, end it sooner, rather than later. In my case, I waited way too long. You both deserve happiness and your kids will see through any facade the two of you show. Working together to improve things -- that's a great thing for the kids to witness. But living in misery is not something you want to condone for your children.