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I went though this same thing. Married 8 years, 1 child. We had plenty of money, that was never a stress.
He ignored my feelings and needs and buried himself in his work and the computer. I warned him that he was losing me, but he never really listened.
He eventually started trying, but only after it was too late. My feelings had changed. I love him, but I'm not in love with him anymore. No matter how hard I have tried, I have not been able to feel love for him like I once had. I can't see myself with him ever again. That was over 3 years ago.
It's funny cause, if I went back to him I would live very well, as I said we never had to worry about money, and he makes even more now. He still has hope and wants me back, but I'm just not in love with him and can't find a way to feel that way for him again, and money can't by love or happiness.
I hope this doesn't discourage you, because everyone is different, and she still could find her way back.
This is more of a warning to others to listen when someone tells you something is wrong. Don't wait till it is too late, don't wait at all, or you can loose it all.
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