Of course it is possible, you both are still there and trying. It sounds like you are on the right track and just need to keep working. You should keep showing her that you have always loved her. She felt let down, and let me tell you women may forgive but we never forget. The hurt is still there and she will need to work threw it.
I think you should try to get away from the kids and the house at least one day a week. Sometimes staying in the house just reminds you of the past, bills that need to be paid etc. It doesn't need to be expensive, just a walk in the park so you can talk.
Now I know that I have only been married for 5 years, but I do know what you are going threw, me and my husband have been threw problems. Mainly money. Money always stresses out marriages. Me and my husband got married really young and now have three little girls. We work so hard to keep from fighting about money or any other issue. But it is hard.
I really hope the best for you!!!
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