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Originally Posted by noodle
i usually meet most girls in the bathroom at some point.
it's one of those, "Hey" moments and I never see them again.
Okay, bad joke.
when you stop trying to find them, they will find you... in the oddest places.
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I'm trying to believe in that last sentence.. in fact I looked back at some of my old post from a few years ago and I found I said basically the same thing and when I think about some of the relationships I've been in .. in fact all of the important ones have occurred this way.
The last one which I'm trying to get over was sorta like this I was in the dumps and got a random message from a girl in Texas on myspace.. "Hi" that lead to an amazing LDR that was totally unexpected and I couldn't have dreamed something like that would happen to me. At that time I wasn't looking for anything I was just trying to live my life. It was a blazing relationship that burned out rather quickly but it was still something that I wasn't looking for.
Okay sorry for that back to the topic,
I have trouble meeting women .. I'm just not the outgoing type who goes up to women in public places. I should try it more though.. I don't go out often and when I do I'm usually with friends who are involved so I'm flying solo and being kinda shy in the those situations doesn't lead to much success with women. I don't think I'm bad looking and I'm funny and can keep a conversation going Its just that ... well I don't know hell maybe I'm none of those things and I'm fooling myself lol...I work with all males mostly so low chances to meet a woman there. When I did though I could of had success I just was involved with someone at that time so I didnt allow it to happen. Most of the women I have been involved with I have met through someone or something random like the myspace thing, or a girl at the physical therapy office, or my best friends sister (doh) or my moms boyfriends daughter .. (double doh)
The only place I can say I am around lots of women is the gym and that is hard for me to go up to someone and just start talking I feel they are there to workout and not get hit on.
Theres some good advice in this thread, I'm going to have to use it for inspiration, the way I look at it is im going to have to try a bit more but not too hard. I shouldn't base my happiness on if I'm meeting women but I should try to live a fulfilling life and if it happens it will be good but if not happening today that wilil be fine also.