The only thing holding you to this guy is a *hope* that he will someday match the vision you have in your head. You already know he doesn't match that vision and hasn't changed at all in the interim. If there were kids/marriage etc. holding you two together, I might say listen to what he has to say. But there isn't. With potentially abusive issues, I don't waffle. I will not put myself in that situation for anything, not even some kind of spiritual connection.
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