Well when it comes to my family I can see my younger surviving better in the world then our other sister. For one thing my younger sister can take care of herself, she may not be really book smart but she knows what she wants and goes into the world to get it. On the other had other sister depends too much on my parents. She has always been the smart one, the one that is going somewhere (in my parents minds). And that is probably true, but she is so scared of everything that she is keeping herself back. Shes scared to drive, she is too shy to even order food at a fast food place. The bad thing is that she is getting married next month to a guy who is exactly the same way.
But there are ups and downs with both. My younger sister may not be as afraid of the world, but because of her limited education she may find it hard to get all she wants out of life. Now I didn't say she wouldn't just that it will be harder. Then theres my middle sister, scared of the world but works hard at her education. She pays for her own schooling and knows what she wants in life.
So honestly I don't know which is better off. I guess its whatever works for you.
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