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I agree with little_tippler: choosing to meet her during the first week of classes during her first year of college is just ridiculous. She can't actually afford to spend her time with her head in the clouds, as you put it. She will be meeting new people, getting to know her roommates, learning her class schedule, learning campus, and in general she will be a bit frazzled but excited. If you throw yourself in there and demand her time, she will probably be pissed/resentful that you are detracting from her time to get settled in college and make new friends.
I really think you should rethink your timing, if not rethink the entire thing. And definitely don't go for more than a couple days! Wait until after her first week of classes, at the very least. Entering college while in a "relationship" generally doesn't work unless you're both going to the same school or two schools close to each other.
I'd keep her as a friend but pursue women close to you. Even if she's super awesome, you don't REALLY know her, and you won't get to truly know her over long distance unless she's willing to make the same investments you are, and it doesn't sound like she is.
Good luck, whatever you do.
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