...the first thing i would do is cut your visit in half...at least....3 days tops. You may not hit it off from the getgo and then what. A guy told me once that he did what you are doing but it was only for 3 days...and he said it was uncomfortable and tedious to be together once they realized it wasn't working...which was immediately.
...i hate to be negative but you need to protect your heart by lowering your expectations. She has been honest to say that she doesn't have the same feelings for you (until all I's are dotted and T's are crossed...maybe) and not all that wild about settling down to one guy (she's young and just starting college...she's ready to experience all it has to offer sounds like).
...take it slow...and start from the beginning because reality is a whole different ball of wax. I would even go so far as to say, don't necessarily anticipate sex. Focus on developing a friendship first...if you want this to last.
...may all go well for you
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