It's all about the balance. Do you stay or do you go.
Advantage of up and leaving: You get the chance of finding a woman who has the qualities she lacks (will give you head). Disadvantages: Said woman may be lacking even more crucial attributes that present gf has and you take for granted, or it may take a long time to find the woman if you have a several page long list of required attributes that this woman meets, minus one.
Sex is important, but us homo sapiens have a way of taking a single sex issue and blowing it up huge if they don't get their way. So far, it seems this is the only concrete sex issue you have. You've said she's adventurous and willing to try everything else out to spice up your sex life (though it seems you are taking the initiative). If this is so, assume she will never change on her blowjob habits (since she's pretty much said that). So now you're in a pickle: if this single sex issue is worth less to you than the convenience of staying with this girl and not hunting for a new one, let it go. If it's MORE important, drop her like it's hot.
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