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without reading all the other replies and being a shit of a son myself at one time I must say it's time for him to go. I know instincts say otherwise, the want and need to protect. But he is flat out using you, he is taking advantage of your good will.
I'm pretty sure in about 2 years I'll be makingthe same decision myself. My son is 17 and I've already had it. He doesn't want to work, he doesn't know where he is headed in life, he refuses to make his own decisions and it's high time he started to at least point himself in the direction of his own future. Sometimes there is only one way to do that.
In my late teens I spent time in and out of my parents house, knowing I could always go home if I got kicked out of an apartment or someother situation. It wasn't until I took a road trip 3 states down that I had to learn to depend on myself. I still live 3 states away.
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