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I think your reaction is justified. I've been mad too, but really.. what can you do?
Being mad at the theft really only hurts you in emotional time, and does nothing to affect the perpetrator. It's just like being mad at someone for somehow causing you 'wrong' in your past. People confuse forgiveness and think that it is about letting the other person get away with what they did, or somehow telling them it was was okay. Forgiveness is in fact for you, and you only. It takes the emotional burden of being angry about it off your chest, and it lets you move forward. You never have to tell the person that you've forgiven them, because it's not for them. And you don't have to let them escape without punishment. But you owe it to yourself to move on and stop letting the emotions associated with what THEY did affect YOUR psyche.
It sounds like you're already there if you're having such a minor reaction to the crime. Unfortunately, most people aren't. Look at the number of people struggling daily with the emotion of crimes committed against them decades ago, or parents who did X or Y to them when they were growing up. They need to forgive for themselves, not for the perpetrator. If we let a thief affect us emotionally, they've stolen more than your bike, or your radio, or your car; they've stolen your life.
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